what's your upvote-to-save post ratio?
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    5d ago 100%

    Very rarely save, when I do it's mostly helpful posts or things I want to read later that I flag for re-visiting. To put a number on it maybe 2-4 things saved a month, but I upbear nearly every comment/post I interact with

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    Startign to worry I'm just not allowed to both HAVE energy, and have my temper in order
    Did they change something in the US Vaccines this year?
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    2w ago 100%

    My experience was very mild fatigue with a slightly elevated temp. Overall a much easier experience, but I've heard others say this was the worst yet. I guess it really weirdly depends on the individual. Tylenol/acetaminophen if you can take it should help with general aches and pains from the shot. (Not a doctor)

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  • 😐 🫱 🌊 🍔
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    2w ago 100%

    Yeah it's real. Around 2ft or 60cm of rain fell in places due to a hurricane rolling through the area. Hurricanes are common to the Atlantic and Gulf of Mexico states, but not much can withstand that amount of water getting dumped all in one place. It feels, anecdotally, like severe weather like this has become more common and widespread in recent decades.

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    Does anybody else get exhausted just from knowing they'll have obligations in the next few days?
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    3w ago 100%

    Yes, and having more than 3-4 things happening in a week wears out my social battery like no other. Can't do things like doctor or dentist in the same week because they're all I can think about. It can be kinda frustrating.

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  • HAPPY HALLOWEEN SEASON! Any favorite traditions? Be they either fall in general, or Halloween specific?
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    3w ago 100%

    Carve pumpkins, and celebrate those who have passed on. I pour one out at midnight to honor their memory, and I guess wish them well if they are somehow connected to me still. It's usually a dark, beautiful night.

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  • yewtu.be

    Disclaimer: I don't speak the language and copy/pasted the lyrics from a 3rd party so they may be inaccurate. You just activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Ian purpp he can hit the bass hard 나는 터트려 잭팟 목에 걸래 금메달 말아 손에 쥔 paper Go lIght up, light up A burning, A warning 너의 머릿속 보여 헛짓거리들과 거짓 속임수 개소리 개소리 어리버리 버려 먼지 떨이 벌이 잿더미로 꺼져 떨어 넌 걸렸어 이 함정에 나 지금 걸었어 한 장의 카드 긁어 신용한도 여긴 언제 터질지 모르는 한반도 과부하 지쳤어 내 가사에 담아낸 말들은 나비효과 그딴 거 하나도 없지 좆까 무슨 주의 주의 나는 갈래 도망 제발 집어치워 니 좆같은 개똥철학 남의 것 훔쳐서 도벽만 신경 썼대 근데 병맛 쓸데없는 말은 말어 난 미리 갈어 몸은 사려 느린 시간 봤어 달력 잠깐 정지 랩을 달려 도대체 니가 뭐를 알어 이런 씨발놈아 니가 도대체 뭘 알어 결국 거지같이 벌이 좆도 없이 살아 너도 나도 네모 창밖에선 다 똑같잖아 난 갈 길이 멀어 차비는 없어, 자비도 없어 말은 다 버려, 멀리 더 날어 의미는 필요없어 You just activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Ian purpp he can hit the bass hard 나는 터트려 잭팟 목에 걸래 금메달 말아 손에 쥔 paper Go lIght up, light up A burning, A warning 너의 머릿속 보여 헛짓거리들과 거짓 속임수 개소리 개소리 어리버리 버려 먼지 떨이 벌이 잿더미로 꺼져 떨어

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    Please drop a tub at the corner of Main and 5th between 2-4am today. I don't wanna meet people, I don't want new friends. I just need Beanis. Beanis is important to me.

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    neurodiverse un_mask_me 4mo ago 100%
    Dealing with NT Harassment

    I broke down today in a public setting when someone deliberately attempted to annoy me because they enjoy my reactions when I get upset. My question is, how to deal with such things? Any hexbears who regularly deal with this or have suggestions on how to handle such situations? Am I just fucked with dealing with assholes? ::: spoiler Content Warning: self-harm So, I get sensory overload pretty easily with seemingly small auditory cues, such as whistling, intermittent humming, low frequency vibrations (like from old AC units or fluorescent light bulbs). Someone I am forced to interact with on a daily basis decided they wanted to make me squirm today by whistling off-key repeatedly, loudly, and very near to where I was working. When I asked them to stop they continued to do it, kind of like a sibling who is bored and wanting to get some entertainment by driving the other party crazy. After 20 minutes of it I was getting to the point of distress, and I asked them to please stop because it was making me uncomfortable, and their response was to try and do it more loudly. I finally went to them and talked to them directly, face to face, and all but begged them to stop because it was making me uncomfortable and it was getting disrespectful, near tears at that point, and they rolled their eyes and said "Sorry you got triggered". The reality was that I was to the point of starting to scratch myself with my nails to distract myself because I was so distraught from the noise, something that I've come to understand happens when I'm starting to dissociate. I'm ashamed to say I dug my nails in enough to draw blood and leave marks, something I haven't done in a long while. Ended up leaking a few tears, which is really embarrassing and shameful for me when I'm not alone... ::: --- I have to work with this person every day, and I can't wear headphones/ play music/ do things to block them out like I normally would. I just got this job but I'm already to the point where my mental health is being trashed after just a few weeks. Am I SOL? Anyone have anything that could help with this, even if it's suggestions on dealing with over stimulation in a work setting as someone with autism? I keep my ND a secret; no one knows I'm on the spectrum. ...am I overreacting? ![niko-tear-wipe](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhexbear.net%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F9553258e-87ef-4405-a9e0-1c8a2a45a3ea.png "emoji niko-tear-wipe")

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