OneWomanCreamTeam 18h ago • 100%
Realistically like $35/hr. Honestly I probably make a lot more than that for the company I work for. Considering the abysmal hours with absolutely no consistency, that should add atleast another 10$/hr.
OneWomanCreamTeam 1d ago • 100%
It takes some kids longer to figure things out than others, but if they're old enough to feel attraction to people then they have developed some amount of their sexuality.
OneWomanCreamTeam 2d ago • 100%
A couple of years ago my (now ex, for urelated reasons) partner got ahold of some molly. I was pretty new to drugs, but trusted her to keep me safe. We tested a small portion of it, and it came back clean. That night we took it with us to some club and did some lines in the bathroom.
Unfortunately, I was unaware that the chemicals in those test kits have expiration dates, and no one had ever explained the chocolate chip cookie effect to me. Either we just missed the chunk that had fentanyl in it, or those expired tests just weren't accurate, but either way I ended up overdosing.
I'm told my heart stopped for about ten minutes. Fortunately for me, the boyfriend of one of the performers had narcan with him. I had collapsed in front of the bar, and woke up laying in the parking lot with a bunch of strangers crowding around me. My partner ended up bundling me into the car and driving me home. I'm pretty sure I ended up with some brain damage. Years later though, I feel like I'm pretty much recovered, fortunately.
OneWomanCreamTeam 3d ago • 100%
That's what the alcohol is for: to sanitize it.
OneWomanCreamTeam 3d ago • 100%
That's a whole fucking meal.
OneWomanCreamTeam 3d ago • 100%
Basically all of Fox's viewer base, except for the small percentage that just hate-watch them.
OneWomanCreamTeam 5d ago • 91%
Science also tells everyone they are pointless pieces of dust
Can you cite any studies? Because that sounds more like philosophy territory.
OneWomanCreamTeam 5d ago • 100%
Welcome to two party systems. The only way out is to abolish FPTP voting, the electoral college and (In the case of local/state elections) gerrymandering.
OneWomanCreamTeam 5d ago • 90%
How could we possibly subsidize child care? We've got genocides to fund, and that's WAYYYY more important /s
OneWomanCreamTeam 5d ago • 72%
As we all know, you can't make a critique of capitalism without including "capitalism bad" in your critique.
OneWomanCreamTeam 6d ago • 100%
For real, a. E-assist bike seems like it solves most of the same problems a moped does, but much more elegantly.
OneWomanCreamTeam 6d ago • 100%
Them damn liberals with their gay sex, causin' natural disasters in my pants.
OneWomanCreamTeam 6d ago • 100%
Well he can, but he doesn't because, uh... Because it's all part of his plan. Kinda like kids getting cancer, or natural disasters.
OneWomanCreamTeam 6d ago • 100%
And definitely don't force it on your children.
OneWomanCreamTeam 7d ago • 100%
Honestly I've kind of been wondering if polyamory is for us. I definitely don't want to stop being polyamorous, but I also don't want other people to get hurt because of me.
OneWomanCreamTeam 7d ago • 100%
I feel like you basically hit the nail on the head. Things are definitely more complicated than I was able to portray in my post. But I definitely hope this is how I'm able to move forward.
OneWomanCreamTeam 7d ago • 100%
Honestly I didn't even think about it from that perspective. I have been unfair to Swiss, and I guess I'll have to talk to her about it.
For privacy sake, I'm changing names into cheeses. So I've been with my nesting partner (Cheddar) for about 2ish years, living together for most of it. She's wonderful, she's thoughtful, and she means the world to me. About 6 months ago I met someone really cool (Swiss). We hit it off immediately and things have been great, except for one thing. Unfortunately I happened to meet her during a time when my relationship with Cheddar had a fair bit of turmoil, so unsurprisingly Cheddar reacted with a lot of insecurity and jealousy. The first night I hung out with Swiss we ended up getting in a huge fight. From there on, anytime I even mentioned Swiss all the energy was sucked out of the room. I did my best to make sure I was moving forward with Swiss slowly, and did my best to try and bear Cheddar's feelings in mind. She still felt like I was putting more effort into this new relationship than I to my relationship with her. To her credit, I was absolutely far from perfect. I definitely didn't communicate how things were going between me and Swiss very well, to the point that Cheddar felt like I had stepped over a big boundary. Fast forward to about 3 weeks ago: I've been head over heels in love with Swiss since July, but had been putting off prompting the partner conversation for the sake of Cheddar's feelings. It was my last chance to see Swiss for over a month, because she was about to do a bunch of traveling, and I decided I had put things off for long enough. I tell Cheddar I'm going to ask Swiss to be my partner that night, and Cheddar reacts super negatively. She says something to the effect of "We're moving soon, your work schedule just changed dramatically and now I have to get used to having a metamore on top of that? It feels like too much is changing all at once." To her credit, Cheddar later texted me to encourage me to have the conversation anyway, but by then I had already decided not to. "After all, even if Cheddar gives her blessing it's still going to hurt" I thought "Better just wait till Swiss is done traveling. Cheddar is right, and in her position I probably wouldn't like all of those changes all at once either." Fast forward once again, but to last week. We're in the new apartment and slowly unpacking. Swiss has been out of town for awhile, and still has a week or two before I'll get to see her in person. Cheddar has been seeing someone (Gouda) for a couple of months. One night Gouda tells Cheddar "we need to talk". They hang out next chance they get, and Cheddar comes home to tell me "So, you have a new metamore." It fucking sucks, and the timing could not be worse. I feel like I've just been consumed with jealousy. Watching her do all the things I've been holding myself back from for months: Coming home with hoodies, or hickeys. Spending entire days with the new partner. Nothing unreasonable in and of itself, but all stuff I've denied myself with Swiss for the sake of Cheddar's feelings. In the meantime I won't even get to see Swiss in person for another week. It certainly doesn't help, that because of my new work schedule I've had a lot less time to spend with Cheddar, and a lot of what I do have has coincided with her only opportunities to hang out with Gouda. Last night we talked about it and Cheddar asked me "Do you want me to put things on hold, atleast till Swiss gets back?" It feels like I'm being so unfair, but I said yes. Like, why should Cheddar have to put her relationship on hold, just because my other romantic interest is out of town? A lot of the things I've been holding myself back from weren't even explicitly requested by Cheddar, just the sort of thing that usually sets off her jealousy. This morning Cheddar told Gouda "I need to take a step back for a little while for my partner's sake" and apparently Gouda didn't take it very well. She isn't talking to Cheddar at all at the moment. I feel like a fucking monster. I don't know. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being unfair?
OneWomanCreamTeam 2w ago • 100%
The whole comment section too.
For real, it's all because I got that crazy fuckin banana joker. I'd have been cooked without it.
I'm bisexual, and trans. I've been on dates with men, and women, presenting as both a man and a woman. I usually just pay for myself, or awkwardly fail to turn them down when the other person offers to pay.
Mine certainly hasn't. I feel like I've had 27 years of downward spiral. I've been slowly, but steadily collecting more and more people to miss, Watching my finances get worse and worse. My body is starting to fall apart. My life is boring, lonely and grueling. Every time I take a step forward in one area I take a step back in all the others. Therapy has been worse than useless, loved ones stop caring eventually, casual friends just disappear into the ether without a trace. I wish I hadn't gotten "lucky" during my previous suicide attempts, because I definitely can't try that anymore. I wish someone could just do it for me, without me ever expecting it. But your 30s are supposed to be easier. More stable. It's hard to believe that'll be the case for me, going into them with no connection to my past, no money, no marketable skills.