What happened on your worst birthday?
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    EmbarrassedBenefit3
    2w ago 100%

    My birthday is September 10. September 11 2001 happened. While I'm not directly affected, it messed me up mentally because I thought I had something to do with it. It didn't help that the year after, I saw Space Shuttle Columbia on the launch pad in what would be its final mission.

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  • Lemmy's have you ever been "profiled" or judged preemptively? What is your story ?
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    EmbarrassedBenefit3
    3w ago 100%

    I look like I'm straight out of school, sometimes people explain things to me like I know nothing.

    Not that I think they're automatically malicious. Sometimes I find myself in the "explaining" position because I think not explaining makes me sound I'm cooped in an ivory tower.

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    Girls Band Cry will officially stream in US starting August 13th!
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    EmbarrassedBenefit3
    3mo ago 100%

    Increasingly common Hoopla W.

    Kanopy also has a good selection. They've got a few Sentai stuff and was surprised when I saw Amagi there of all things.

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  • On Press Freedom, News Coverage, and Its Effects on Readers
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    EmbarrassedBenefit3
    5mo ago 100%

    I got my first 5G-capable phone noong Dec 2023, right before I visited PH from a sizeable city sa US. Mas nauna ko pang maranasan ang 5G sa Manila kesa dun sa local area ko.

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  • In my opinion, yes. Leaving is the best way to remove the negative exceptionalism present in your mind, reducing the perpetually-insular outlook when it comes to PH. "Only in the Philippines!" yeah, try living overseas for some time before you believe that. It works both ways. You want to experience the better things the world has to offer na wala sa Pilipinas? Enjoy it to your heart's content. Or are you there to learn about the good and bad lessons learned by the foreign country and later return to contribute something constructive? Good for you and keep the growth mindset and heart of curiosity.

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    On Press Freedom, News Coverage, and Its Effects on Readers
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    EmbarrassedBenefit3
    5mo ago 100%

    internet is relatively fast and affordable

    Words I never thought would go together when pertaining to the Philippines lol. Not that I'm complaining, it has no downside.

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  • I recently saw a discussion where someone mentioned how the Philippines's level of press freedom lets our media freely report on whatever they want. As a side effect, a lot of the negative news can easily make their way abroad and give foreigners lasting impressions on the country. There is also the appearance that PH is singled-out on many issues, as if we're the only country with these problems. Foreign media can come and report on topics like teenage pregnancy or child prostitution, and they can't do that in some of the neighboring countries with lesser press freedom. There are similarities on the Florida Man phenomenon when it comes to that, partially because of its relatively open FOI laws... [or at least in the past](https://www.muckrock.com/news/archives/2023/dec/13/for-the-record-sunshine-week/). With that in mind, to me, it explains why a lot of countries do not like freedom of the press—they fear, not without reason, na yung news coverage sa kanila would border on the slanderous. On the flip side (heh), parang chad wojak yung dating sa Pilipinas kasi they're adamant on the press freedom despite all the slander. Big con lang sa press freedom and yung focus sa Pilipinas sa issues na mukhang tayo lang ang may mga ganung problema (as mentioned in the earlier paragraphs). Ayun, nafufuel yung self-hate. I was once a card-carrying self-loathing Filipino who uncritically believed whatever bad news I see. It took me spending a few years outside of the country to change my perspective. The overseas experience phenomenon is a thing sa Australia. Malaking tulong sa mga Pilipino yan (bukod sa pagiging OFW) para maground sa realidad yung tingin ng mga tao sa Pilipinas. Madaming problema sa Pilipinas, pero hindi tayo nag-iisa sa ganun. There's a way to improve things. A lot of the self-hate and despair is because of that apparent helplessness and futility. Nagiging echo chamber kasi puro local "familiarity breeds contempt" perspectives lang ang available eh, to add to the rose-colored glasses view towards almost any foreign country. Thoughts?

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