Why on gods green earth do people buy gift cards?
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    15h ago 100%

    I don’t know what to get you and prefer something better targeted than cash. Tell me what you want, what you really really want, and you might get that instead

    — if you complain again, I’m writing you a check: tell me how inconvenient that is

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  • Am I wrong for thinking article titles like this are demeaning?
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    AA5B
    15h ago 100%

    And a bunch of people saying “OMG, it’s Florence Pugh ….. and she’s even fitter !!!!!!!”

    (I assume, but not taking the bait)

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  • Non preppers / Doomers. What's one small thing you're prepped for?
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    AA5B
    2d ago 0%

    I just discovered some leaking so I no longer have that. It really drives home the point that these need regular, if rare, attention. Also that plastic not only seeps into the water with time, but the jugs eventually degrade enough to leak

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  • Which scene in a movie/series do you think didn't make any sense to the plot ?
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    2d ago 100%

    Huh, I might have to watch that again. It was one of my favorite seres, but back then I was stuck watching on the networks schedule, so I never finished it

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  • Non preppers / Doomers. What's one small thing you're prepped for?
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    I used to do that, but had to take it out of the car every winter. What good is emergency prep that’s not available half the year?

    Does anyone know what to look for in long term storage of something drinkable that could be left in a car over winter?

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  • Non preppers / Doomers. What's one small thing you're prepped for?
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    This is a good idea, as is first aid, for every day life. I keep thinking I should do similar, as well as a stranded kit for my car, but it never quite comes together.

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  • Non preppers / Doomers. What's one small thing you're prepped for?
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    2d ago 100%

    But fire extinguishers expire 🤦‍♂️. After I got frustrated by my attempts at preparation always being expired, I discovered fire blankets (I think that’s what they’re called. Now I have them on a hook next to my stove so I can easily smother any fire …best of all, they never expire!

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  • Non preppers / Doomers. What's one small thing you're prepped for?
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    2d ago 100%

    “General population” is probably what we’re not prepared for. Where I live has a low chance of disaster and I always naively thought that I have credit cards and enough charge on my EV to get 100+ more miles inland and find a hotel. That probably doesn’t work as well when everyone wants to do it at the same time

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  • Non preppers / Doomers. What's one small thing you're prepped for?
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    Nothing anymore, or perhaps just that I buy my TP by the case from Costco, LoL

    A couple weeks ago I found some unexpected puddles in my basement, and tracked it to my emergency water supply. A couple plastic jugs that expired in 2010 spontaneously started leaking.

    I understand that’s not a good long term solution to water, but also prepping apparently takes more going maintenance than I’m motivated for.

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  • Mine's a Juicer
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    It used to work great in the old days. Now every utensil needs to have a bulky handle, and I’ve accumulated too many, so there’s just no room in that bucket

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  • Mine's a Juicer
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    Oh man, that’s why that drawer was so spiteful - it took its revenge out on my mother-in-law. Apparently it reincarnated as a bathroom drawer and schemed with the cat to close the bathroom door and open the drawer right next to it

    I tried to help but it was too tight to even snake a wire hanger through. I ended up smashing a hole in the bathroom door

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  • Mine's a Juicer
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    I’m in the lumpy potato crew! Some texture makes them so much nicer. Also, don’t add so much milk: I want to taste potatoes

    …… of course I also tend to leave the skins in, plus there may be garlic or caramelized onions

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  • Mine's a Juicer
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    I have this one drawer that always hits something

    • potato masher
    • large pizza cutter
    • basting brush with an annoying hook on the side
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  • Why is selling fake medicine legal in the USA?
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    2d ago 100%

    Not that I looked up what it was meant to be, but from the name I assumed it was a probiotic. Very different from homeopathic but about as medical

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  • Why is selling fake medicine legal in the USA?
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    AA5B
    2d ago 83%

    Technically she didn’t make any medical claims. I think it’s legal because she could argue she didn’t make any specific medical claims, plus no government agency is going to find an individual worth their attention

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  • Can you have a conversation with a stranger? do you have them often?
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    AA5B
    2d ago 100%

    No. Between being really poor about remembering names and whether I’ve met someone before, and always being suspicious about their motives for approaching me, it never goes well.

    This past summer I travelled down south and it was a strange experience - people were friendly and wanted to chat, and even be helpful, and not once was there an obvious scam. I’m too old to be discovering something like this but I’ve always been with family or friends or something, or visiting tourist spots, but this time I was wandering in “normal” places. After a week, I was finally open to small talk without suspicion, but what an experience!

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  • Users Claim Apple Watch Can Help Predict If You Have COVID Or The Flu, Here's How
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    3d ago 100%

    Bullshit. I’m also on the older end of that demographic and it’s time to pay attention to your health

    • more people my age are starting to have serious health issues that are important to discover early
    • doctors are starting to pay attention to details and order more tests.

    Some of them are a bit late. For example I know several former concert goers my age with hearing issues catching up with them. Now I pay attention when my Apple Watch warns about dangerous noise levels. However hearing issues can be from a lifetime of accumulated damage, so paying attention starting a decade or two ago would have been even better

    Edit: when I lost weight a bunch of years back, my motivation was being better able to play with my kids but the most important tool was tracking: my vitals, my exercise, my intake.

    Currently I’m battling sleep issues, mostly self-inflicted but the tracking is an important tool toward fixing that

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  • Nearly 80% Of New EVs Are Leased: Dealer Data
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    3d ago 100%

    Plus the rate of technology change. I considered leasing for the first time ever, because EVs are so new and the technology is rapidly changing. I ended up deciding Tesla is getting mature enough to buy.

    If I were to buy from a legacy manufacturer, I see that most are really on their first generation, their first attempts at an EV, so likely have huge changes coming soon. For example, why would I buy with the old charging connector when they’ve announced they will start using NACS next year? I’m not buying into that, but I may choose to lease it for a few years then upgrade to something better

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  • Does anyone know the current state for re-flashing Inovelli Blue switches to Thread? I haven’t been paying attention the last year so I don’t know if they released that or if it works reliably. I did try looking through the community pages without finding anything definite (plus that might not include any actual experience trying it) I recently saw a couple new Thread devices, so maybe it’s time to start using that. My entire Zigbee network was intended to be flashable to Thread: all I have is SkyConnect and some Inovelli Blue switches. More importantly, that should be a good foundation for a strong mesh to support other devices (and I don’t have a reason for a strong Zigbee mesh). I know SkyConnect multi-protocol didn’t work out but I believe reflashing to Thread is fine. I know Inovelli Blue can’t be reflashed over the air, but that’s ok. Is there Thread firmware and what are your experiences with it?

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    bbq AA5B 4w ago 85%
    Dinners ready in two hours. Who wants some?

    Throwing this out there in case someone has advice ….. I got a smoker this summer and have been having a great time cooking new (large) meals. But my kids are back at college and I can’t depend on my ex. How do you find people to eat your meals? It’s a weird situation where it’s a huge pellet grill and smoking tends to focus on large pieces of meat, but not everything freezes well. I _want_ to go gangbusters with feasts, just when I no longer have anyone to appreciate it. Anyone know if there is such a thing as cooking clubs, or something? How do you find one or how do you break into one as a single guy? Fwiw - kids are back from college today, ex is coming over and ex-FiL - smoked duck with orange maple glaze - chicken for those not willing to try duck - rice pilaf - arugula salad with toasted pine nuts - I plan to throw chocolate chip cookie dough in a cast iron skillet for brownies and top with ice cream

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    I just got back from a 1,200+ mile road trip and Superchargers, especially with the trip planning, made it easy! However non-Tesla chargers seem to be more common in Connecticut. I went to try one and discovered I don’t have as complete a set of adapters as I thought. What if I need to charge at a CCS charger? I looked online and the price range is huge. I see a $64 and one close to $300, and several in between. Do you know what the difference is or what I should be looking for? Is there one you’d recommend? Is it even worth it, since Superchargers are everywhere, plus I charge at home, and CCS is likely to go away in a couple years?

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    I just got back from my first real road trip in an EV: over 1,200 miles in nine days! I stayed with my brother most of it, but did not even ask to plug-in. I saw many destination chargers, but filtered them out. I charged only at Tesla superchargers. There was always one close to on my way, and I never felt too delayed. My first charging stop was at the Meadowlands, which is apparently a huge mall when they’re not playing football. It was a huge surprise to see the pop up to continue the trip _before we were able to find the food court_. I did follow the pattern from trip planning, to charge up frequently for short periods of 10-20 minutes, rather than wait for a full charge, and it worked very well. Basically each stop was to grab a soda, maybe use the bathroom, and go, and I always had a couple hundred miles of charge available There was only one spot where I was worried. After sitting in traffic over an hour with the AC running, I was getting worried about reaching the planned supercharger. I exited to try a different brand, but discovered I didn’t have that adapter. Oops. However in the end, we did make the planned stop with a decent amount of charge left, despite the traffic delay and a couple detours The final leg of the trip was 350 miles through mostly rural are with fewer super chargers. Trip planner recommended 2 quick charging stops, but by the time we ate lunch, the first stop was more than sufficient. Even in this rural area, supercharging wasn’t inconvenient! No more range anxiety here it, it worked very well …… although admittedly in urban areas in the northeast where superchargers are fairly common. Still, destination chargers were common and I could have plugged in at my brothers.

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    A few years back at Fenway Park watching the Boston Red Sox I think this was the game where I was carded and didn’t have my license to prove I’m old enough to drink. Lol, found one of the guys literally half my age to buy beer for me. I guess thanks for the entertainment at stupid adherence to paperwork despite greyed haired reality staring in disbelief ![](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Flemmy.world%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F6d6bc832-b64f-4b73-b000-4c3e4822c99f.jpeg)

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    Finally able to turn off the heat, sitting out on the deck.’c “Shipping off to Boston” with the dog, listening to the Dropkick Murphies with an adult “lemonade”. SUMMMERTIME!!!! Ok, not so scenic, especially since I didn’t include the dog, but let’s see you do better. Please. Let’s see beer in the Alps and places more scenic than my deck

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    I don’t know if this fits the community, but the way ads placement works can lead to some unfortunate results Just looking for some cooking ideas, and I wish I could forget what I saw ![](https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/b02fc874-f494-4599-a3b8-696185ee0953.jpeg)

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    Yesterday at the grocery store, someone keyed my new car. It’s not like I could have done anything to annoy someone, since there wasn’t anyone parking in the next spot when I pulled in, and I was almost perfectly centered in my spot I just got the car in November, and it’s that really nice new navy blue. Looks fantastic. And now it’s keyed. I hope it was at least an acciden somehow, because I’ve read too many articles online about people just wanting to see the world burn For anyone else who had to have the paint touched up, can I take it to a normal body shop? Or does it need something special? Where would I look?

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    Insufficient tinting, but lens flair got the image at 95%

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    castiron
    Cast Iron AA5B 7mo ago 87%
    Seafood feast!

    I hope this is ok to post: cast iron adjacent and has not better home on Lemmy …. Seafood feast I made for the kids last night. That fried rice started as 2c dry rice and would have been tough to make without the space of this griddle top! Or maybe it’s just me, I can’t seem to make it without spreading out and making a mess It’s all an experiment - only the second time cooking tuna steak - only a few times trying to sear shrimp - fried rice - ok, hot sesame oil was new, gave it a nice kick without being hot Probably use it for a massive number of pancakes tomorrow So this is also a cry for help: what can I replace this with? - I’m getting an induction glass top, which doesn’t support griddles of any kind - I don’t want to go back to Teflon, that all stand-alone electric griddles seem to be - I don’t know how big to consider: during the week it’s just me and a skillet is sufficient, but kids do come home from college - I considered getting a Blackstone or similar, but the weather here is not friendly to outdoor cooking half the year Anyone have ideas what to look for in a stand-alone griddle that’s not Teflon, and is cast iron or cast iron adjacent?

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    Can I just say, I’m really happy how successfully my kids appreciate a huge variety of foods, and I’ll pat myself on the back for part of it. We had a bit of a rough start with one kid allergic to everything and the other just not eating. Now they’re teenagers and not only know how to eat healthily, but enjoy a huge variety from many cuisines (and are almost at my level for hot sauce) Today one kid was home and he thoroughly enjoyed: - breakfast: cilbir - lunch: pupusas with avocado mash (and when I offered my hot sauce selection, he picked ghost pepper sauce!!!!) - dinner: tuna steak and halloumi over salad in a sesame dressing with nori At my house: dinner around the world! Edit: or maybe I need to rephrase …. As Americans with no other cultural heritage and whose families eat “American” food, my kid in one day had food inspired by Mediterranean cuisine, Central American, and Asian. Polished his plate and asked for more!

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    I use extra virgin olive oil for some cooking - where taste matters, but never knew what to look for. Several years back, we did a taste test of brands and styles found in my grocery, and settled on one that was good, but they no longer stock it. Now I need to look for a new one but still have no idea what to look for, so what do you look for? I used “Philipo Berio” brand _robusto_. I don’t know if that’s considered good but it tastes good to me and has a reasonable price. My grocery still carries the brand but not _robusto_ and the other styles don’t have as much flavor. Apparently _robusto_ is not a thing, since no other brand uses that nomenclature, so what can I look for to find one with a strong flavor? How can I find a “good” brand without spending a lot? Is there a price sweet spot, like with wine?

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    I can talk the talk, but this is really going to test that …… I live in a fairly walkable town outside one of the most walking and transit oriented cities in the US. I’ve always been a transit and walkable communities advocate. My town is centered on a train station/bus/taxi/scooter/bicycle hub and we have a traditional walkable “Main Street” with shops and restaurants that we pedestrianize for the summer. We have a new rail trail that will eventually connect to a statewide network, a riverwalk and even kayak rentals in the middle of downtown Higher density housing is centered on the downtown, dominated by 4-6 story apartment/condos, including residential over commercial. Works great. Surrounding that is a belt of 2-3 story multifamily houses, townhouses, and small apartments. I’m the first street zoned for single family, but I can still walk to the town center, and take the train into the nearby major city. I even spoke up in favor of new statewide zoning, requiring “as of right” zoning for large apartment buildings near transit …… maybe you see where this is going ….. When I was out walking my dog this morning, I saw construction …. apparently there are a couple huge 6 story apartment buildings going in just a couple blocks away. It all seemed like a great idea until it was my neighborhood. It was a great idea when things were grouped by size. But now it’s a behemoth towering over three deckers and the like, and even looming near single family housing. I’ve “talked the talk” but really don’t know if I can “walk the walk”. This really seems excessive for the neighborhood. What do you think? Could you still support higher density housing when it means something twice the height going into your neighborhood, hundreds of tenants where now it’s 3-10 per building? What would you do when you get what you were asking for but it’s in your neighborhood and way out of scale?

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    iPhone AA5B 8mo ago 93%
    Is it worthwhile capturing personal photos as spatial?

    I currently have no use for spatial photos, can’t justify the price of the Vision Pro headset, and really don’t have a reason to have strong motivation. Looking back at old family photos, I see sepia from my parents, faded from when I was a kid, and low rez/faded even from when my kids were little, looking across that timeline, the march of technology is clear. Older photos are noticeably older (even when not printed). However I have a phone that can take spatial pictures and has extra storage, and I just had to raise my iCloud storage. Assuming spatial photos and videos becomes commonplace, it will be another noticeable jump in photo technology. Reviewers of the Vision Pro rave about them Do you think - spatial photos will become common/normal, or are just a fad like 3D tv? - is there a standard format or is it Apple specific? - it’s worth getting a jump on the technology for personal photos, even without a use yet? Presumably I will have a use at such time as I look back on personal photos

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    After all this online drama over something as silly as green bubbles, I just discovered their power. I had a brief power outage and apparently my cell provider had degraded service, so I had no data and text messages didn’t go through. Then I tried a green bubble conversation and it worked. SMS worked, when data and iMessage did not. So how can I do that on purpose? I don’t know if this is a normal occurrence but the next time I have degraded service with no data, does anyone know if there is a way to SMS to fellow iPhone users?

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    So I’m enjoying exploring my new Model Y!!! However I noticed that driving at night on dark country roads, I invariably see a warning that my right pillar camera may be obstructed. This doesn’t happen in daytime, and granted the right pillar may not be able to see much in the dark. However I don’t see any obstructions and cleaning it doesn’t make a difference. So is this normal or a problem I need to have Tesla look at?

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    The SkyConnect dongle was sold as Zigbee but with the promise of also supporting Thread. This is available in HA as experimental. Does anyone have experience with how stable it is? Is it close to ready?

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    I’m going through the process to buy a new vehicle, and see pluses and minuses with Tesla’s online process. Yes it’s very simple and fast but it also gives very little info about what to expect and when. So, coming down to the exciting part ….. I just got notified to schedule delivery. However “delivery” is apparently pickup, in a town 20 miles away, just like legacy car sales. However they only give me a choice of two days, weekdays only, and only during the day. That makes it tough to get someone to drive my old car back Schedule pickup is not giving me any other choices. Does anyone know a way to do that on a weekend or evening or a closer showroom? Edit: worked it out. While I loved the smoother, abbreviated purchasing process, I was frustrated at never knowing what was going on or what would happen next. I really wish they provided more info on how it all worked for those of us who worry when we don’t understand the details

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    In the US a decade or two ago, we enacted regulations to increase the efficiency of passenger vehicles. However larger vehicles typically needed for commercial and farming uses were exempt. Now we see the results of that as reverse incentive, where trucks became more common, even for simple commuting Will the same happen with BEVs, a reverse incentive that increases the use of trucks? I just read an opinion piece (lost just as quickly, sorry) that discussed issues with sales of EV pickups at GM and Ford. They made a compelling argument that EVs still have weaknesses as _work_ trucks and point to the success of Rivian as a _recreational_ truck. Certainly arguments against EV pickups do center on those weaknesses, even for scenarios where it wouldn’t apply (how many truck owners actually tow regularly?). So, as BEVs rapidly take over the car and crossover markets, and the holdouts have fewer choices of ICE cars, will they increasingly turn to trucks?

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    Is there a difference, and what? I’ve been reading about the “15 minute city” idea, and it is both fascinating and brings back good memories. I’ve lived in a few neighborhoods of Boston, where my biggest use of a car is finding some place to stash one long term. I had all my daily needs in a short walk, as was a subway station. Combine that with a monthly pass and the freedom to go anywhere was fantastic. I know people in NYC with similar experiences, including several who never had a reason to learn to drive. My oldest is at college and on experiencing campus life, commented similarly. I hope y’all get to experience this some day However the Boston area has focussed on” transit oriented development “ for the last few decades. They use zoning and other development tools to encourage mixed neighborhoods with more housing, more retail, and even more office space focussed on transit hubs. It’s not just a train station but each is a “hub”, centering other options including bus routes, taxis, trails, cycling, and other personal transportation. This is a lot of what makes a “15 minute city” possible. Now we’re extending it to Eastern Massachusetts, where any town convenient to transit needs to have similar zoning actively supporting transit oriented development. These two concepts seem very similar, except for the special case of college campuses. What’s the difference, or is it just evolving terminology? Which is better? Are there strengths of one approach that need more attention in the other?

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